Everything can be temporarily acceptable to everyone.
On a scale of 0 to 10, where do we position ourselves for the quality of life we have?
What about our satisfaction with our relationships?
And our financial situation, our sentimental life?
Are we happy, a little, a lot, passionately?
Have we finally made the right choices in all these aspects of our existence?
Determining the minima and maxima that we can get from life seems to be a fair and justifiable necessity.
Once this is clear, let's focus on the outcome we want to go to.
Moving from theory to practice ...
.... So less risk of being tempted to "tilt the balance" from one side to the other, again!
Our happiness does not systematically cause the misfortune of others.